Permission to Dream Again - why it's ok to want more

Episode 19: Permission to Dream Again - Why It's OK to Want More

May 13, 20252 min read

"Dreaming again isn't betrayal - it's bravery. Your future deserves a voice, too.” - Rebecca Ann

Why Widows Feel Guilty for Wanting More

Let's talk about something tender: the guilt that creeps in when you start to imagine a new dream after loss. For many women navigating their Life 2.0, just thinking about what's next can feel disloyal to what was. "Shouldn't I just be grateful for what I had?" we whisper to ourselves. But here's the truth: your dreams didn't die with your old life. They just went quiet.

Episode 19: Permission to Dream Again - Why It's Okay to Want More

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When I Realised I Needed Something New

After 25 years in the home I built with Les, I reached a point where the echoes were louder than the comfort. I felt in my bones: it was time for something new. But oh, the guilt. The tears. The fear of what others might think. But I kept reminding myself - dreaming again isn't betraying the past. It's honouring your future.

Small Ways to Start Dreaming Again

You don't need to overhaul your life to start dreaming again. Try this:

  • Write down one thing you've always wanted to do - something just for you.

  • Say it out loud. Hearing your own voice speak it is powerful.

  • Share it with someone who supports you.

Even one small step toward your dream tells your heart: I haven't forgotten you.

Your Permission Slip

Your life isn't over. It's evolving. And dreaming again? That's not selfish. It's brave. Whether your dream is a new house, a holiday, a business idea, or simply peace - you deserve it.

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If this speaks to your heart, come join us in the free Redesign Your Life Community. You'll meet other brave women learning to dream again, one step at a time.

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